blastocladiales

There is nothing that will ever happen to you that does not happen for a reason. A good reason. It just may take time for you to realize why. With patience, you may see why something seemingly insignificant will end up changing you for the rest of your life.

This journal has officially gone private. If you came across this via one of the many links floating around the web, I would be more than happy to let you inside. All I ask is that you create an account with Live Journal and post something in here to let me know you exist. I'm sorry to make you get an account, but it's the only way I can control access. It's not like I work for these bastards or anything.

This journal is updated painfully regularly.

"you can love your partner, but hate the life you share together."


here is my opinion on this:

loving someone is not reason enough to stay together. sometimes a reason for breaking up with someone is not because you hate them, but because you love them enough to realize the life you share may not be what's best for one another.

i feel that you're allowed to be selfish. if you realize that the life you share with your partner is not a life you enjoy, regardless of how much they enjoy the life you both share, it is not fair to yourself to suffer in order to keep the other person happy.

if one half of the relationship isn't happy, the other half will inevitably suffer. if the other truly loves you, they would understand your decision to separate.